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Question #266

Aren’t you encouraging divorce?

I’ve been browsing your q and a, noticed a few questions like 2, seems like you are encouraging divorce to get out of adulterous relationship. God hates divorce, Mal. 2:16. Granted, Jesus speaks about adultery in Mk. 10:11-12, however in 1 Cor 7:17-24 Paul says to continue to live in situation the Lord has put you when he called you. This would seem to apply to some of questions, although I may be wrong. Great site by the way.

The Answer:

You are correct that God hates divorce. That is at least one reason that he placed such high regard upon it in the New Testament and why he placed emphasis on safeguarding its sanctity by placing a great penalty on its corruption. Paul’s statement in 1 Corinthians 7 does not instruct people to continue in adultery if they are already in adultery when they are converted. If God did not hate divorce he would not command that the marriage bed be undefiled and promise judgment on whoremongers and adulterers. Hebrews 13:4. If you wish to study the need meaning of repentance when people are living in adultery, please study Class: Questions, Lesson 2. If you wish to study the so-called “Pauline Privilege,” please go to Lesson 11 of the classes on 1 Corinthians. There you will find an article on the meaning of both the “Pauline Privilege” and the meaning of “Remain As Called.”

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You must repent of your sins. (Acts 3:19) But repentance alone is not enough. The so-called "Sinner's Prayer" that you hear so much about today from denominational preachers does not appear anywhere in the Bible. Indeed, nowhere in the Bible was anyone ever told to pray the "Sinner's Prayer" to be saved. By contrast, there are numerous examples showing that prayer alone does not save. Saul, for example, prayed following his meeting with Jesus on the road to Damascus (Acts 9:11), but Saul was still in his sins when Ananias met him three days later (Acts 22:16). Cornelius prayed to God always, and yet there was something else he needed to do to be saved (Acts 10:2, 6, 33, 48). If prayer alone did not save Saul or Cornelius, prayer alone will not save you. You must obey the gospel. (2 Thess. 1:8)

You must confess that Jesus Christ is the Son of God. (Romans 10:9-10) Note that you do NOT need to make Jesus "Lord of your life." Why? Because Jesus is already Lord of your life whether or not you have obeyed his gospel. Indeed, we obey him, not to make him Lord, but because he already is Lord. (Acts 2:36) Also, no one in the Bible was ever told to just "accept Jesus as your personal savior." We must confess that Jesus is the Son of God, but, as with faith and repentance, confession alone does not save. (Matthew 7:21)

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