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Question #116

More questions about the role of women in the church.

I have read several different answers and also have looked into this subject myself and still have some questions regarding [the role of] women in church.

1: If a woman is to keep silent in the church does it also mean not to testify as we do in our church?

2: What if you are married to a man that is “slow” of learning? Then what?

3: Our preacher believes that it is okay for a woman to preach and my husband and I both believe that it is wrong? If so, how do you try to explain it to them?

The Answer:

The answers to these questions may be found in the answers to Question 22, Question 40, Question 41, Question 44, Question 49, Question 65, and Question 90. Testifying is not mention in them, but testifying is a form of preaching or teaching when done in the assembly and thus falls within the prohibition. Assuming that the translations “wife” and “husband” are correct, a wife may still seek teaching from another individual outside the assembly or ask that her question be addressed in the assembly. Given the context, the better translation should be “woman” and “man.” (See Question 44.) Women may also ask questions in the Bible study hour. (See Question 65 and Question 90.)

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